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How girls work

Girls go through a lot of changes at puberty. Development can starts around the age of 10 with pubic and underarm hair and breasts starting to grow. Girls develop at different rates. Some girls may have their first period when they are 10 others may be 16. All these changes - known as puberty take place over a few years. Changes that can occur include:

Moods
You'll probably get a bit moody, in great form one minute and then taking the head of someone the next minute. Don't worry about this, it's perfectly normal, blame it on the hormones! Just keep your cool, things will settle down!

Breast development
Breasts come in every shape and size and can be soft or firm. It is normal for your breasts to feel tender as they grow during puberty, but this will stop once they've grown. Growth can be uneven so one breast may be bigger than the other. This will even out but many women have slightly differently sized breasts. You'll need to get a bra!

What size bra?

Use a tape measure to measure around your chest underneath your breasts where the bra straps goes, and add 5" to that number. Then measure the fullest part of your breasts. If the two numbers are the same then you need an AA-cup, if there's a 1" difference an A-cup, 2" a B-cup, 3" a D-cup. Ok, if this is too complicated for go to the lingerie department of any good store and ask an assistant to help, don't be embarrassed, they're not!

The menstrual cycle
The pituitary gland at the base of the brain tells the ovaries to produces hormones called oestrogen and progesterone As a result your ovaries start producing a monthly egg and you begin to menstruate (have periods)

The menstrual cycle is the first day of a period until the day before the next period starts. The length of the menstrual cycle varies, it can be as short as 21 days or as long as 40 days. The hormone oestrogen causes about 12 to 20 tiny eggs to grow in one of you ovaries each month.

At about day 14 of a typical 28-day cycle, the egg leaves the ovary, traveling through one of the fallopian tubes to the uterus. The release of the egg from the ovary is called ovulation. Some girls know when they're ovulating, because at mid-cycle they have some pain--typically a dull ache on either side of the lower abdomen lasting a few hours.. Some women also have very light bleeding, or spotting, during ovulation.

The monthly shedding of the lining of the uterus, or womb-affects everyone a little differently, both physically and emotionally.

Oestrogen also makes you produce mucus to help sperm live as long as possible inside you after sex, sometimes up to 6 days, so if you're sexually active, practice safe sex by taking precautions.

Coping periods
Changes in hormone levels can affect your moods. You may feel:

Energetic and sexy around the time you ovulate or Moody, tearful or angry the week before the period is due.

P.M.S.
Is the term for a wide range of different symptoms that women experience in the days leading up to their period. Symptoms of P.M.S. include:
Depression

Bloating

Fatigue

Acne

Breast tenderness

Cramps and backache

How to alleviate symptoms
Exercise regularly and limit salt, sugar, caffeine and alcohol.

Eating lots of fresh fruit and vegetables and carbohydrates can also help

Periods may also be particularly painful.
Hold a hot water bottle against your stomach and take a painkiller such as aspirin or ibuprofen. The combined pill is very good for painful periods, but there are other alternatives. Your doctor will be able to advise you of these.

What happens if your period stops?
A missed period could mean that you are pregnant. But periods may stop altogether if you loss a lot of weight or if you're exercising to extreme or training hard. Being worried or stressed about something in your life can also cause periods to be late. If any of these occur consult your doctor for advice.

Sex during your period
You are most likely to get pregnant when you're ovulating, but the time you ovulate can vary from month to month. Also sperm can live in the body for around 5 or 6 days so pregnancy is possible at virtually any time in your cycle. Boys produce around 300 million sperm when they ejaculate and it takes only ONE to make you pregnant!

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